Hypnobirthing Story of Marek – born 10th July 2014

I went into labour two weeks earlier than my estimated time and we had an all-natural birth just like we planned.

I started having regular surges around 3am that day but I managed to stay in bed.  I still woke up to pack a sandwich for my husband’s lunch at 5am.

I called my husband back at 9am so he could help make me feel more calm.  We called the hospital and slowly packed our bag.  By midday I told my husband we should go for a check-up at the hospital (although in the back of my mind I was thinking we might be sent home) even though the surges were quite close I was not sure because this is my first time.

We arrived at the hospital around 12:45pm and went to be monitored and have a check up.  I didn’t know my progress but my husband did (I was 8cm dilated).  I went straight to the birthing suite within 15 minutes of arriving, and we just didn’t have any time to take anything (our camera, music, birth ball) out of the car as I needed my husband by my side.

My midwife and my husband were great, they were so supportive.  In the transition stage I nearly gave up but my husband and midwife helped me pass that point with reassurance and smiles on their faces.  I breathed with every surge and deep breaths with slight moaning to bring my son out.

My son Marek was born on 10 July 2014 at 14:38 with a tiny body of 2.5kg.  He was alert and we had great bonding time.  I delivered my placenta quickly soon after the birth without the injection.  It all happened very quickly for us.  We spent less than 3 hours of labour in the hospital.

There were lots of funny bits when we look back:

  • My husband nearly became the midwife if we had stayed any longer at home.
  • We only have one photo from the birthing moment with my phone as we didn’t have time to get anything out of the car.
  • My husband got a parking fine as he had no time to move the car.

I cannot complain about the birth at all, but I’m struggling with breastfeeding.  I don’t have much supply and my son had tongue tie and jaw problems so he cannot be on my breast much, which makes my supply even lower.

I will still keep trying and happy in the way that he is growing well with small amounts of expressed breast milk and formula.

Our photo of us is straight after birth and no-one would believe that was a few minutes after he was born as I didn’t seem tired.

Marek - Kannika & Pavel

We were overjoyed with Marek and our birthing experience. Thank you Vicki for guiding us with hypnobirthing tools to be calm and positive.  I even use the breathing to calm baby on my chest at night when he doesn’t settle.  We are glad to share our story, and hope it will help others or at least put a smile on their face.

Looking forward to seeing you soon.

Kannika & Pavel